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God Loves You: But Are You Ready For Love?

Even though it might not seem like it, are you ready for love after you’ve been hurt? Trust me, I have been there so I understand how you feel. So now, it’s time to tell your story in order for you to move on and receive the love you deserve.

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Are You Ready For Love If You’re Still Hurting?

When I needed you the most, you weren’t there for me. On the other hand, I told you I was hurting you didn’t care, you only hurt me more. Although this may be true, when I needed you to be strong for me, you were weak. You tried to hurt me anyway that you could.

At the same time still I wasn’t anything but kind to you. Besides, you took my kindness for my weakness. Everything I gave, you took it to hurt me until I had nothing left inside of me to give. All I know from you is lies and hurt because that’s all you ever gave me. I hurt daily, my heart is broken but you never tried to repair it. Nevertheless, you only damage me more, you only push me further away from you. Nonetheless, you treated me like I was nothing to you and all you wanted to do was hurt me because you were hurting. Otherwise, you wanted me to hurt just as bad as you were hurting.

Everyone Keep Asking me “Are You Ready For Love?”

Regardless of anything, you though it was a game because you played with my heart. All I know is lost and confused because I lost myself. Be that as it may be me no longer recognizing myself anymore, you took everything of value I had to offer away. In the event that, you no longer loved me, you no longer cherish me, you no longer appreciate me, you no longer knew my worth because I no longer knew my worth.

For the purpose of this, I no longer loved myself, value myself or even knew my self worth. So you may ask “Are You Ready For Love.” For the fear of being hurt again what is love? To put it differently, how can you be ready for something you never experienced. Therefore, I ask myself “Is Love Possible?” What happens next? Will I ever be able to move on?

Hurt & Pain Are Apart of My Identity

All I knew was the hurt and pain that you cause me to have. It became natural to me because that’s all you ever showed me. So why you didn’t love me, it wasn’t me that you didn’t love, you didn’t love your own self. With this in mind, you wanted me to hurt because that’s all you knew was hurt. To emphasize, you wouldn’t allow me to love you because you didn’t want to get hurt again.

To be sure, two people can’t hurt each other; they can only damage each other so a separation has to take place so both people can heal from broken hearts. It is obvious that you two love each other so ask God for wisdom and guidance so you two can become one body in Christ.

Stop Trying to Hurt Me & Love Me

Stop trying to hurt me and love me. Love me the same way that I love you. It’s already inside of you because you can’t sleep at night without thinking about me. In fact, you find yourself watching me on social media wondering how could you be so stupid to let me walk out your life.

You’re thinking I miss her so much, she is so beautiful but I wasn’t ready for her and I didn’t mean to hurt her. For one thing, I really didn’t want her to leave me. First thing to remember, I know I will never find another woman like her so I have to do everything in my power to get her back. But this time I won’t lose her, I will be ready for her.

Therefore, I would do something I never did before. I will seek God for guidance and wisdom so I can be that Godly husband to her that she deserves. In fact, I will surrender my own life back over to Christ, ask Jesus to forgive me for my sins. However, I know I can’t go back to her on my own, I will just hurt her all over again.

So Jesus Christ be with me, wash me clean, make me pure and whole again. Open my eyes up so I can see and hear the way you do. Use me as your vessel so your will be done in my life. Let me lead her so she can submit to me as I submit to you Christ. Let me love her the way that you love her, don’t ever allow me to hurt her again.

Lord Deliver me from all temptations

Deliver me from all temptations, give me the strength to say no so I can love my wife the way she deserves to be loved. Lord give her a forgiving heart so she can forgive me. I love her, I don’t want anyone else but her. So fix my eyes only for her, only allow me to love her and never hurt her again.

Now I forgive myself and now I finally love myself again. Thank you Jesus for giving me a second chance at life, let your will be done, not mine but let your will be done in my life in Jesus name! Amen. Matthew 18:19 “Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.” And it is done in Jesus Name!!!

About Author

Christy Sanderson, the charismatic yet virtuous award-winning author, entrepreneur, public speaker, and founder of Glory Nation, is helping women find a purpose in life and get closer to Jesus Christ. She is a woman of God who has devoted her life in the service of the first six letters of her name, Christ, the Almighty.

Glory Nation is led by the mighty spiritual and inspirational disciple of God — Christy Sanderson.

Christy Sanderson is an Award Winning Author, Award Winning Entrepreneur of the year, and Public Speaker. She has a Bachelor's in Early Childhood Education, Master's in Special Education and she is an Educator!!! She has authored five other books, Woman of God Who Did God Create You To Be, From Nothing into the Woman of God: Spiritual Life, Woman of God Stop Looking for Love, God's Kingdom: Spiritual & Wealth Motivation and From Nothing into the Woman of God part 2. Christy has been featured on the cover of UBAWA Magazine, and several radio interviews. She was once a Co-Host on the Digital Breeze radio show in Atlanta, Georgia. At the young age of 23, Christy fully committed herself to God, letting Him take total control of her life, and started her own ministry, Glory Nation. Her life purpose is to experience and share God's Glory, to fulfill God's promises, and to help others become closer to Jesus Christ to find their life purpose.

(6) Comments

  1. This Blog post are you ready to be lived is a twin situation of my fight for finding my worth. God had to literally ask me; “Why don’t you let me love you?.” I’m like huh? When searched him I found him, he simply wanted me to let go and let him help me find my worth, my true identity and guide me to my destiny.

    1. Hello Sherry! Yes that is so true, once you’ve realize how much God loves you, everything will fall into place for you. That is your true identity and worth in life!!!

  2. Kirsten Smith says:

    Great post!

    1. Hello Kirsten!!! Thank you for your positive feedback!!!

  3. Lindsey says:

    God is always ready to love us. Such peace in that. Thank you.

    1. Hello Lindsey!!! God does loves us so much!!!

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