As shameful as it is overcoming molestation as an adult, healing must take place. Most compelling evidence is that people notice or look at you, you wonder if they see the shame or the sadness that’s hidden inside you. On the negative side if someone touches you or becomes too close, you feel fear or anxiety.
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Is Overcoming Molestation is Ever Going Happen in my Life?
You’re Afraid of People You Know or Do Not Know
You’re afraid of people, you’re fearful of everyone because you feel they would hurt you, just like a certain person hurt you when you were a child. Every time you walk out the door, you’re very careful of your surroundings, you observe every detail about a person, you watch them closely.
Frequently, you keep yourself at a distance from everyone else. You try to hide yourself from the outside world; you make yourself seem unwanted because of the hurt that’s inside of you. In fact, you feel like you’re ugly, you’re worthless, you have no value in life and you feel like you do not belong here.
Are You Struggling to Overcoming Molestation?
Why Did You Get Molested as A Child?
Particularly, you wonder why did that happen to you when you were a child? Why did that man or woman hurt you? Why your parents wouldn’t listen to you or why didn’t they believe you? Now your life is a living hell, you’re afraid of trusting people so you build a wall around you so you would not allow people to get in.
It Was Not Your Fault, You Did Nothing Wrong
Important to realize, I’m here to tell you, it was not your fault, you did not do anything wrong, you were a child. Do not give power to the person that hurt you so forgive yourself and the person that hurt you. You cannot live your life by being angry or mad all the time. I understand it might not be easy to forgive the person that sexual molested you when you were a child because it takes time to heal from something that hurtful. But I promise you it was not your fault, that man or woman was simply sick in the head and prayed for that person to be healed by the blood of Jesus Christ.
Slowly Forgive that Person Who Hurt You
As you slowly forgive that person, your life will start to become better. You will be able to live again and you will have peace in your heart that you never felt before. Now you will be filled with so much joy, love, tell your story to others so you can prevent it from happening to another child.
In life, we might not understand why certain things happen to certain people and not others but through it all you cannot let it take control of your lives. As a result, you have to fight back and take back what’s rightfully yours. Do not ever let another person take total control of your life but God.
You Are Who God Says You Are
You are who God created you to be. No longer will you have to walk around being ashamed or embarrassed. When you walk, you walk with your head held high now. You are no longer a victim, you are a survivor so open your mouth, speak with wisdom and force. Now you are walking, talking and being led by the Holy Spirit so no one can harm, hurt or damage you ever again.
You Have A Testimonial To Tell to Save Other Children From Abusers
From this day forward, you are a new person, you are now the person God created you to be! I decree and declare that everything that tried to destroy you or damage you is now defeated in the Name of Jesus. It can no longer conquer you unless you allow it to, so take your life back and live your life for Jesus Christ.
You are loved and you have the most high God on your side so nothing can stop. God created you to rule nations so go out tell your story to save other children. Help other molestation or sexual abuse children and help others to overcome it. Overall you will be living a life of overcoming molestation.
If you need know anyone who is being sexual abuse as child report it to the child abuse hotline at NEW Special Hotline for Reporting Child/Sexual Abuse 301-443-0658. You can read books and know the signs of children being sexual abuse. Pay attention to your children or others to save more children from molestations so they won’t have to live a life of overcoming molestation as an adult.
Prayer For Healing & Deliverance
Dear Lord
Lord Jesus thank you for saving and protecting me! I forgive those who hurt me and molested me as a child. But from this day forward I will not allow molestation to take over my life. Jesus I love myself as you created me and see myself as the person you created me to be. Yes I am worthy of true love so I love myself as you love me.
Today I decree and declare that the spirit of molestation, shamefulness, embarrassment, neglect, abandon and depression is broken off my life. It is done in the Name of Jesus Christ, I will not allow those unclean spirits to come back into my life in Jesus Christ. When Jesus Christ died on the cross, he defeated those demons and took away all the sins.
My Lord Savior Jesus Christ, thank you for always being there for me when I didn’t know you was there. Today I decree and declare the blood of Jesus Christ over my life. Those demons shall leave me right now in Jesus Name. I am God’s child and no one else will have me, use me or take advantage of my body anymore in Jesus Name. From this day forward, I am covered and protected from Jesus Christ, I forgive myself and others that have hurt me in my past.
In Jesus Name,
I Pray, Amen
I love how you’re helping others who have a history of sexual abuse. This is something that is way too prevalent and can’t be addressed often enough!
Hello Susan! Yes that is so true!
This is a great starting point for beginning the healing journey. I’ve also found professional counseling and support groups to be a great help as I’ve worked through the issues surrounding childhood abuse.
Hello Jenn! God bless you, I’m so happy to hear that you have found great support for your healing process!!! It takes a lot of courage to speak out!!!