Stop Living with The Spirit of Fear

The spirit of fear is here to destroy you and take you down to Hell. Living with the spirit of fear is damaging to your soul, body, mind and spirit. So who are you? Why are you here? Where do you come from? Go back to Hell, where you belong. I break the spirit of fear off your life right now in the Name of Jesus.

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Are We All Living with the Spirit of Fear?

At some point in your life, you were living with the spirit of fear or had some life experience with fear. Of course, I was living with the spirit of fear at one point in my life. It became so bad that my daily routine was built on fear. Fear was all around me without me realizing it.

Living with the spirit of fear while facing my biggest fear in life

One of my biggest fears in life was that I would always be a single mother. Now most people don’t understand what it’s like being a single mother. I mean a single mother with no help from the father at all, with being completely non-existent in their child’s life.

Now I’m not talking about the divorce mom or the mom who left their relationship but the kids’ fathers are still involved in their kids’ lives. Everyone’s story is different, I’m just telling my story not trying to downgrade anyone or put them down. 

For the first 10 years of my son’s life, he didn’t even know who his dad was. His dad was never involved in his life. But I knew when he was ready to be a dad, he would come back around. So I did everything on my own, my mother died when I was 8 years old, my grandmother died when I was 11 years old. I became a mother when I was a freshman in college at 19 years old.

It is Not Easy Being A Single Mother

Therefore, I take full responsibility for my actions, I know I had a child and I wasn’t married. It was one of the hardest things I went through in life, it’s not easy being a single mother with no help. As far as me going out, having fun was non existence in my life. It was all about my son, everywhere I went he was with me. 

While I was a young single mother, people were not nice, they would say mean or rude things to me. Some people would say I was going to Hell because I had a child and I wasn’t married. I was not a good mother, my son was going to grow up to hate me because his dad wasn’t around.

My son was going to grow up having behavioral problems or be disrespectful because I was a single mother. They were very judgmental, it hurt me deep on the inside. As a result, I was ashamed of being a single mother. 

Even though times are different now, society is now more accepting of single mothers. You must remember I grew up in Mississippi where everything is more focused on traditions and religion. What makes it worst is that I grew up in a Baptist church. So I grew a fear of being a single mother forever. 

When I left Mississippi I had a Real Wake up Call

Once I moved away from Mississippi when I moved to Atlanta, Ga everything changed for me. My life became better, we lived in a good expensive neighborhood and my son went to the best school. Whenever my son’s school had different events or functions I was always the single mother there. At the school, the majority of the kids had a two parent household. 

However, what changed my fear of being a single mother was that every time I went to my son’s school, the teachers and even other parents would compliment me on how I raised my son. They told me my son was well mannered, respectful, and a gentleman. He would open doors, hold doors and help people when they needed help.

He was a good kid, he had no behavior problems and I was doing a good job of raising him. Even at my son’s daycare, the after school program said the same positive words to me. Lol they said they wished all the kids acted like my son. They even say the same things at my son’s school now when he is older. 

God Healed me and Delivered me From Bondage

It’s amazing how God works because people said that I couldn’t provide for my son. In fact, on my small budget God had favor on our lives. People would always compliment me on how nice I dress. Furthermore, not just that they were impressed because I had my son nicely dressed as well. 

Then at my church one Sunday morning, a woman spoke a prophetic word into me. The woman said “You have always struggled with being a single mother, you feel like you are not a good mother but God says You are a good mother and your son Zechariah is a prophet of the nations.” Tears started running down my eyes, no longer was I living with the spirit of fear.

God healed me, delivered me and broke that bondage off my life. Now I am not afraid of always being a single mother. No I am not married but that’s okay God will send me a husband that is a man of God to love me and my son. Overall, even if I never get married that is okay because God is always with me and His love is unconditionally. Yes I am okay if I never get married because I have peace now.

God blessed me with an amazing son whom I love and adore so much. Some women can’t even have kids so I’m so thankful I had a healthy son. 

Are You Finally Ready to Stop Living with the spirit of fear?

Jesus Christ is the only person who can deliver you from the spirit of fear in your lives. The same way He delivered me, He would do the same for you. Trust me I know, I have been there. What is your biggest fear in life? Write it all down on a piece of paper. Write down your negative thoughts on the paper, look at them, then rip them up and throw it away. Or you can even Burn it, send it right back to Hell where it belongs. God did not create you to live in the spirit of fear. 

2 Timothy 1:7 – For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind

God loves you so much, He doesn’t want you to live your life in fear. Yes God wants you to Prosper, live in the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth to spread His word to all nations. Instead of living in  the spirit of fear, find your purpose in life to live the life you have always dreamed of. 

If you are still struggling with the spirit of fear, read my blog Fear You Are Dead to me, Go Back to Hell. You can also read my first book Woman of God: Who Did God Create You To Be? In the book I revealed my struggles of being a single mother, how I overcame them to become the woman God called me to be. You can also order my books off Amazon.